Becoming More Positive Following A Loss


When you have experienced a loss in your life, whether it is the death of a loved one or the end of a long-term relationship, your natural reaction is to become sad, withdrawn, angry, and of course to grieve the loss. And while this is an entirely understandable and acceptable reaction for a while, there comes a point where you have to make a choice. You can either choose to let your sadness take over your life or pick yourself up and embrace positivity. If you are looking for ways to become more positive and to get your life back on track, then consider a few different options that are available to you to help you along the way. 

Find A Personal Growth Mentor

While you may never have heard of personal growth mentors in the past, they can work wonders to help you to become more positive and move forward following a loss. A personal growth mentor can relate to your loss and provide empathy and compassion while simultaneously encouraging you to move forward and in positive directions with your life. 

Any concerns about your life or in moving on from loss you may have can be discussed with your personal growth mentor. Your mentor will listen to what you have to say, give you advice, and help to guide and advise you to help you avoid making major mistakes. The inspiration and positivity they bring to your life can help you to take your life in the right direction. 

Try Positive Thinking Affirmations

If you are not quite ready to hire a personal growth mentor or want to try additional techniques to make yourself and your life more positive, you may want to give positive thinking affirmations a try. Positive thinking affirmations are short positive statements that you repeat to yourself when you are feeling down, doubtful, or self-conscious about yourself or your self-worth. 

Basically, positive thinking affirmations are designed to target your specific insecurities, doubts, and fears in life and can help you to move forward. While you may not always believe your affirmations when you first begin to use them, eventually the message will seep into your subconscious and you will feel more positive even without the affirmation statements. 

The key to affirmations is to stick to them even if it seems silly to you when you first start saying them. They are effective, but only if you have the resolve to stick it out and repeat them several times a day. So, give them a try and do not give up until you begin to think more positively about yourself and your life.

Now that you have a few ideas of how to become more positive following a loss in your life, you can get to work at improving yourself and your life. So, keep these ideas in mind and take control of your life once again. 


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